Mel Schwartz - A Shift of Mind

Try to choose your relationships from a grounded place of being selective as opposed to feeling needy. When we NEED to be in a relationship, it will cause us to settle and accept qualities in the other which over time will come back to haunt us. When we do so, we ignore the red flags that we should be paying attention to.

On the other had, if you work on developing your own sense of wholeness, you can be far more selective in choosing your relations, which will serve you far better.Don't complete yourself through the relationship, complete yourself first and then select the appropriate partner.