Learn about love languages.

What the hell is a Love Language? Simply put, we feel loved when someone speaks our language of love. This could be expressed when your partner says, "I love you," or it could be expressed as a hug or holding hands. You may be a person who feels loved when your partner does things for you, like drawing you a bath. Maybe you feel loved simply by spending time together. It may even be that you feel the greatest love when they buy you a gift.

People feel love via:

•Words of Affirmation
•Physical Touch
•Acts of Service
•Quality Time
•Receiving Gifts

Imagine learning the language your partner receives Love and then expressing your feelings to them in their language. Don't stress if you don't quite get it right; it's the fun of learning about the person you are in love with! That's how you grow to understand your relationship, right?

Tips:

•Make it a game to work out what your partner's love language is. Test each one out and see what happens!
•Ask your partner whether they feel most loved when you use a love language.
•Do a love language test! Go to www.5lovelanguages.com and do the free test.

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