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Talkin to you gets my mind off my mind

Takes away the frizzles lingering thoughts to just focus on beauty

To just focus on

YOU

7/1/13

1 year today since I first met the love of my life.
It was also the day I taught a lesson to a class.
It was also the day I broke down tremendously again.
It was also the day his love clicked.
G-d, it is so powerful to feel the rapture of his love inside of me, moving me. Please do your work in me tonight, baby.


It's been so long since I've said these words: I am so in love with you


May I channel my love onto the children.

more perfection for me.

For security: Seek self-assurance
Rather than always looking to the other person to make you feel secure in your relationship, get into the habit of reassuring yourself. Start to challenge your own fears and imaginings rather than just accepting them. Ask yourself: "Hold on a second. What real evidence is there for this fear?" At the same time you can focus on the thought: "Okay, nothing in this life is certain and I can live with that. And even if this relationship did end, I'm strong enough to go through it and ride it and will have learnt things from it." We all need to go with the flow in relationships. What we fear will be 'the end of the world' if it happens never really is.

Sit down, close your eyes, and strongly imagine feeling relaxed and secure around your partner. This will train your brain to feel that "whatever happens, I'll be okay."

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Focus on the good
Relationships are meant to be fun (at least some of the time). Insecure people look for signs of what's not working. I want you to look for signs of what is.

Doing this will get you and your partner feeling naturally more positive.

No meaningful relationship will always totally work all the time. Being too black or white about relationships spells trouble. There are always some difficulties, but keep focusing on what is good.

This doesn't mean that you have to accept anyone who will accept you, even if they are obviously not right for you. But it does mean that if there are occasional problems, you don't have to 'throw the baby out with the bathwater' and become so destructive that the relationship ends or so clingy that your partner ends it for you.

Emma learned to relax and enjoy her relationship. She stopped feeling she had to control what her partner thought or did and her new laidback attitude made it easier for their love to genuinely blossom.

A good relationship is there for you to enjoy together, to share resources and develop together in healthy ways. If someone really does treat you badly or lies and cheats, then feeling insecure is a natural and justified response. However, if you're actually in a generally good relationship, then follow these tips because what you have is precious.

But possibly not as precious as the knowledge that whatever happens, you can relax because you'll be okay.

F. Scott Fitzgerald thinks that will power is what separates good and evil.

Men's preferences Women's preferences
1.Attractiveness 1. Commitment
1. Commitment 2. Social Skills
3. Social Skills 3. Resources
4. Resources 4. Attractiveness
5. Sexiness 5. Sexiness

April 17, 2013

Such an incredible, amazing, positive day so far and it's only 1:45 pm.


Morning self-love audio,
Talk with sis,
Loving emails from HIM,
Talk w Dad in car about leasing car in Detroit (eased stress),
Whole Foods sesh :)
Incredible beach time with a friend,
Amazing spiritual phone conversation,
Sun,
Flower,
HIM <3

Later in the day...

Skyping with HIM(such meaningful experience. Thank you, baby, for the gift you gave me),
Meaningful conversations <3

It's not a break-up, just reassembling.

It takes a strong woman to handle a broken man.

Wow, how the time goes. How you fit the shoes you stared at for years. How your heart finally has was you begun to crave from the first time you watched Titanic at 8 years old. How you know the deepest and most meaningful reality known to humanity for yourself. How you are in love. How you can know love. How you are getting distracted looking up rings. . . My how I've grown. And I'm glad I'm growing into the woman you need. I'm glad we are growing into one.

You have my heart, babe. I want a life with you.

~J.B.

"And it seems to me perfectly in the cards that there will be within the next generation or so a pharmacological method of making people love their servitude, and producing...a kind of painless concentration camp for entire societies, so that people will in fact have their liberties taken away from them but will rather enjoy it, because they will be distracted from any desire to rebel by propaganda, brainwashing, or brainwashing enhanced by pharmacological methods."

~Aldous Huxley, 1959

When people ask what I'm doing, I'll tell them:

I'm busy being in love.